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  • bwalsh
    Junior Member
    • Feb 2019
    • 2

    Nepotism

    Just wondering if anyone else works for a dealership where the owner has their children working there? I have 4 that do absolutely nothing, except cause problems and tension with all of the other employees. They are always late, abuse vacation and sick days, and are condescending and rude. Anyone in the same boat?
  • CWP
    Trusted Tech

    100+ Posts
    • Jun 2013
    • 168

    #2
    Re: Nepotism

    Yes, I have the same problem. Oh, wait, they are my kids. Nevermind
    Last edited by CWP; 02-08-2019, 08:25 PM.

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    • guitar9199
      Service Manager

      Site Contributor
      1,000+ Posts
      • Sep 2016
      • 1097

      #3
      Re: Nepotism

      I worked for one a while back. One son was the Service Manager, the other tried the parts department.... then sales.... then customer service... then field service... then BACK to sales... then....

      You get the idea.

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      • mansart
        Senior Tech

        Site Contributor
        500+ Posts
        • Apr 2009
        • 851

        #4
        Re: Nepotism

        I think we have all worked there.......

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        • Lance15
          Service Manager

          Site Contributor
          1,000+ Posts
          • Jun 2015
          • 1069

          #5
          Re: Nepotism

          Yup....our "Service Manager" is the owners husband.....nuff said

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          • mincopier
            Trusted Tech

            250+ Posts
            • Dec 2015
            • 290

            #6
            Re: Nepotism

            My boss married the owner's daughter 20 years ago or so. Then about 10 years ago both of his son's, her step children, started working here. For the most part they do what is required of the rest of us. A few of us "older" techs realize they will always have a job no matter what happens. The younger ones will complain and we explain it to them and tell them "If they still have a problem to go talk the service manager, their father, and the President of the company, service managers wife and their step mom".

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            • Blizzoo
              Senior Tech

              Site Contributor
              500+ Posts
              • Aug 2013
              • 588

              #7
              Re: Nepotism

              Originally posted by bwalsh
              Just wondering if anyone else works for a dealership where the owner has their children working there? I have 4 that do absolutely nothing, except cause problems and tension with all of the other employees. They are always late, abuse vacation and sick days, and are condescending and rude. Anyone in the same boat?
              You need to be part of the family
              Defects are simple, our mind is complicated

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              • allan
                RTFM!!

                5,000+ Posts
                • Apr 2010
                • 5445

                #8
                Re: Nepotism

                Have said no to good paying jobs after figuring out the company structure based on experience of nepotism.
                Nothing wrong with father and son businesses, but makes it frustrating for non related individuals with a bit of ambition.
                Whatever

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                • JR2ALTA
                  Service Manager

                  Site Contributor
                  1,000+ Posts
                  • Feb 2010
                  • 2017

                  #9
                  Re: Nepotism

                  The old saying goes

                  1st generation starts the business
                  2nd generation grows the business
                  3rd generation destroys the business

                  Think the show Pawn Stars

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                  • allan
                    RTFM!!

                    5,000+ Posts
                    • Apr 2010
                    • 5445

                    #10
                    Re: Nepotism

                    Originally posted by JR2ALTA
                    The old saying goes

                    1st generation starts the business
                    2nd generation grows the business
                    3rd generation destroys the business

                    Think the show Pawn Stars
                    This new generation is destroying everything.
                    Spoon feeding is a cruel thing.

                    What is the saying. The the road to hell is paved with good intentions.
                    Whatever

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                    • JR2ALTA
                      Service Manager

                      Site Contributor
                      1,000+ Posts
                      • Feb 2010
                      • 2017

                      #11
                      Re: Nepotism

                      Originally posted by allan
                      This new generation is destroying everything.
                      Spoon feeding is a cruel thing.

                      What is the saying. The the road to hell is paved with good intentions.

                      Yeah but it's not like the Great Depression generation wanted to be poor and hungry or WWII soldiers wanted to be shot at. They just had to deal with it and character was a result.

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                      • NeoMatrix
                        Senior Tech.

                        2,500+ Posts
                        • Nov 2010
                        • 3514

                        #12
                        Re: Nepotism

                        Re. Generations choosing different experiences.

                        There is no universal definition of right or wrong in the grand plan of the universe, their is only "conscious" experiences.
                        Any given personal life path comes down to a "choice" of life experiences, or a "force" of life experiences, either-or there just experiences.
                        What is raised up one day can be beat down the next. We get to choose(free will) or not to choose(force will) to have that experience.

                        There's no point dwelling on what you cannot change outside your own circle of influence.

                        If you believe that the conscious beings purpose in the universe is never ending, then as such, there can be many many different life experiences to the universal/multiverse existent.
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                        • keithxxiii
                          Just a tech

                          250+ Posts
                          • Nov 2014
                          • 468

                          #13
                          Re: Nepotism

                          Been working here for almost 10 years and there's 1 thing I really hate.. Micromanagement.
                          I have seen a couple of service managers and service delivery managers get fired.
                          Aye! Cut the crap

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                          • tsbservice
                            Field tech

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                            5,000+ Posts
                            • May 2007
                            • 7635

                            #14
                            Re: Nepotism

                            Me, one tech in small company.
                            Boss's only son who is a student is working in his free time to help with toner deliveries, paper work and every Friday clean-up Office.
                            I guess it is STILL up to the family how to raise next generation. Do I like this kid, Yes I do!
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                            • Lagonda
                              Service Manager

                              Site Contributor
                              1,000+ Posts
                              • Aug 2008
                              • 1650

                              #15
                              Re: Nepotism

                              Nepotism it self isn't a problem where I work, the Big Bosses son did work in sales for a while, didn't cause any problems before he headed off overseas to bigger and better things.
                              However you do have to watch what you say to who as you never know who's related to whom.
                              We have had at least 4 sets of fathers and sons working in Service, another 3 sets of brothers in sales, sisters working in accounts and salesmen like to employ their daughters as canvassers. One of the sons in Service married a daughter of a admin lady and she is an in-law of the Office Manager.

                              Complicated? yep!! but not so much nepotistic as incestious!
                              At least 50% of IT is a solution looking for a problem.

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